Where any of your family dissapointed by the gender of your baby? - what to give someone as congratulations on expecting a baby
I'm on the moon, a child in the way that I could not be happier, but I think everyone was waiting for my baby and I have a child. My parents, friends, if they are not on the moon, when they discovered that I was pregnant and could not even say congratulations. My friend is an only child, and my impression of her mother, loves to be in the spotlight and think he is number 1 in their children's lives, and I can see my daughter as a threat to their children when it happened effection . She said she waited for her son, who wanted a child and was not prepared to attract a daughter. I can not say that it is not happy, it's a girl because I havn't said, but I have a feeling that might be disappointed. Has anyone been in this situation, say Can U Feel like, not U something?
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
What To Give Someone As Congratulations On Expecting A Baby Where Any Of Your Family Dissapointed By The Gender Of Your Baby?
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yes my mother. I found out Iwas pregnant when she was 20. When I told my mother first, what I said, I hope it's a girl! Well, I wanted a girl too, but ... Anywayz I went into the gender analysis when I was 21 weeks. That's when I learned I had an ovarian cyst and large it was soo great that the child is growing almost out of the room. Well, I can not say that the child was a full BC for the child to move to the right. Well, I had a high risk of Baby Doc, so that they see Surgey scedual remove the cyst. While I was there, the doc told me that the baby is a boy! I was soo happy! Although I wanted a girl who is more matterd! Well, I said to my mother and shes like well thats a disapoitment. They know soo bad bc ill, not even at the time whether my child is doing or not lil! But the two very good ways of surgical and 08 de diciembre born 22 on 9 lbs oz Christmas my lil 14
Friend of my mother is expecting a baby is a girl, since most children in the family and when I told him I said he expects the other side. It was so disappointing to feel what she was really excited after she was discovered.
Friend of my mother is expecting a baby is a girl, since most children in the family and when I told him I said he expects the other side. It was so disappointing to feel what she was really excited after she was discovered.
I've never been in this situation ... but if I was ... and I said to someone, especially a family member, my baby's sex and that they were "disappointed", DEF you have something to tell them about it.
I have 2 beautiful girls. after each birth, my family is all say "the good. next is a boy." but I love girls! I like the family with 2 small girls are enough for me, but remember my parents and respect for the law "to", that is my time for me to get pregnant again. But I do not think bad or sad about his reaction. what's the point, my daughters are beautiful and healthy. Nothing can stop me to love my children. i dont stop commenting on and make sure that your comments will not hurt my feelings .. because I know what I want and I know what I ... I have 2 beautiful healthy girls. What do you want? UR maternity your baby to be proud and enjoy. I am lucky, a mother is about .. Good luck
I have 2 beautiful girls. after each birth, my family is all say "the good. next is a boy." but I love girls! I like the family with 2 small girls are enough for me, but remember my parents and respect for the law "to", that is my time for me to get pregnant again. But I do not think bad or sad about his reaction. what's the point, my daughters are beautiful and healthy. Nothing can stop me to love my children. i dont stop commenting on and make sure that your comments will not hurt my feelings .. because I know what I want and I know what I ... I have 2 beautiful healthy girls. What do you want? UR maternity your baby to be proud and enjoy. I am lucky, a mother is about .. Good luck
Frankly, it would be wrong, as if to repent not a son. If there is more to do that you do not have an impact on the plight of the relationship with your friend and the love for his son.
When my sister was born, everyone thought I would be a child. I expected a really - not because they prefer boys over girls, but because my parents had 2 women and 1 man, and said she wanted to give everything and my brother to another brother equilibrium.
I do not remember disappointed when I discovered that the child was a girl and I thought my mother was lying to me (I was 10 years old at the time) because I was ready to have a brother. But when my younger sister came home, I could care less, and not everyone is of great importance. We were all by this new person in the house fascinated. I have this story to my sister (she is now 11) and does not care. In fact, spoiled all my aunts and grandparents and parents all that they have no reason to feel uncomfortable.
My best wishes and wish you good healthand the baby.
Personally, I must be to support every child be.That sex is crazy, that I feel badly for her.She needs to accept, because not only does her boyfriend and the baby with her disappointments.Try say, a map and tell them , all the time not alone.As your baby is healthy, should not matter.This not sell your baby, you have better luck and get it.Good Congratulations girls! Woohoo! I have every one, and I was very excited when I learned that I had my daughter.Don you.you not accept that the effort is not necessary for you or baby.:)
I have a little daughter who is 2 was born after his sister. Everyone wanted to be his sister, a child and do not tell me what stocks they were sad and disappointed. He even joked to my husband's guilt, etc., makes me a little sad because she was pregnant for the first time, all was happy that I was a little girl.
It is as if time is not happy, because this is my second, okay, understandable, but added that all those disappointed and sad and disappointed. It makes me sad: (
But my husband and I are soo much too excited and then they are all negative, we do our optimistic enough to cancel it! :)
But I say nothing other than to say: "Well, I'm sorry you're disappointed, but we are pleased to have another child." With a broad smile. Farm and usually if I just let go of an ear and into the other.
So here's my story. If your mother is threatened by you, a girl, she has all the rAcquisition of being. My daughter is a daughter of the father of 100% of all types, she has wrapped around her finger. I love your link. As strong as me and yet so different. There is no such thing as a father and daughter:) Oh Jeeze, these hormones now, I cry lol. Anyway, MIL enough to overcome it, see.
And probably will be overcome if the child is sweet when it is born. :)
So I really do not worry too much about this, although I understand how you feel.
Just stay positive and happy and on the Moon! :)
Good luck and congratulations to all!
Cheers!
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